“If you can’t be of any help to the preggie, the least you could do is not to agitate her.”
That’s my advice to all dad-to-be out there. The Husband has successfully pissed me off today. Yes, pissing me off during the baby moon. Smart move. And he has not apologise and I am still fuming as I type.
He bloody hell keeps asking if I should be eating this and that, keeps telling me that I cannot eat this and that just because he thinks so. Does he not remember how much I suffered in the first trimester? And now when I can finally eat like a normal human, he starts becoming my dietician?!
And does he really think that I would be dumb enough to eat things that I shouldn’t be eating? Did he not know that I am in health science and my knowledge in this field is way beyond the level that he can wish for? And would a preggie who went through so much in the first trimester, purposely eat food that will harm the precious baby? Did he forget that the baby is in my tummy and I care for it more than anyone in this world?
Giving me black face or attitude when I want to eat something that he thinks is unsafe, is definitely not the way to treat a preggie, let alone his Wife!